The Daily Southerner, Tarboro, NC

Opinion

December 2, 2009

Morals and values, oh my!

LETTER TO THE EDITOR

Caroline Schoeder says, “Some people change when they see the light, others when they feel the heat.”

Tarboro/Edgecombe County: “How many more headlines do we need to read about the enemy preying on our youth before we make some changes?

“Are the lights in our communities on?”

Shaniya Davis’ untimely tragic death should remind us that “children” are our responsibility. Though times have changed, shouldn’t the village look after the children?

Sadly to say, Shaniya’s story should make all of us sit up and take note. Our women and children are under attack. Why wait for a tragedy in “village” to check the lights?

The foundation upon which our character was formed has been left behind by a valueless generation. That line that separates right from wrong is completely ignored causing us to drift away from the morals and values America was founded on.

The role of the parents has shifted to being friends to our youth? Who is really in charge?

This high tech competitive global society offers more information designed to open up opportunities that generations past could only dream about. Crime, illiteracy, poverty and greed have replaced dreams, hard work and integrity.

Looking ahead, can you see the light? Our community is not immune, and it’s time to wake up and band together before we feel the heat.

My passion is children, and I’m challenging the community to help me protect our most valued resource: “our children.”

It’s time to address areas of concern because their quality of life is at stake. Preparation is the key!

When we are proactive, there is time to think and plan. Daily struggles in our homes, schools, churches and communities indicate it’s time to unite and find solutions.

Times have changed, and we must do a better job of communicating with, training and teaching our children to solve the problems they’ll face in the future.

For years we’ve developed beautiful plans illustrating how schools, churches, communities work together. It sounds good, but why is it so difficult to get the groups to form teams that continuously work cooperatively to improve the community?

Our children are counting on us, now. It’s time to redefine the village and the role each stakeholder plays. I believe it all boils down to building real relationships.

Just think of the lesson for children if adults would learn to play together in the sandbox.

Dr. Evelyn J. Johnson

Tarboro

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    To the Editor:
    A recent news story about the Montford Marines honors the important and too-often forgotten group of men. However, some of the statements in the story were wrong and need correction.

    February 20, 2012

  • Happening a special event

    My first Happening on the Common was one to remember, perhaps in part because it included a wide variety of music, arts and crafts and food.
    And while you wouldn’t be able to tell by looking if someone liked either music or arts and crafts, there is no such uncertainty when it comes to food.
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    May 21, 2012

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    To the Editor:
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    May 21, 2012

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    Happening on the Common, which offered the opportunity for a day filled with leisurely entertainment, didn’t just happen.

    May 21, 2012

  • Remembering Betty Perrin NeSmith

    Betty Perrin NeSmith was a force of nature. I hate the past tense, but it's the grammar we use when someone dies‚ Im just not sure it's the grammar Betty would use when thinking about death. She is moving on, with things to do. She was looking for a higher plane even while grounded on this earth, and I'm happy to think of her still searching out there in the other worlds.

    May 16, 2012

  • A great example of poor judgment

    TO THE EDITOR: I was having breakfast at a restaurant last week when I was asked, What do you think of the new police chief selection? I responded with, Who did they choose? Thats when I was given the devastating news it wasn't one of our own.

    May 16, 2012

  • Did you ever lose your vehicle?

    Have you ever found yourself in the middle of a parking lot, knowing in yiour heart that you remembered where you parked but faced with the realization that you didn’t?
    I think many of us have been down that path, sheepishly realizing that the reason your automatic door opener isn’t working is because it’s not your vehicle.
    Then, sheepishly, we walk away and begin our wandering and wondering as we try to find our wheels.

    May 14, 2012

  • Economic growth a must

    I give credit to Rich Karlgaard, a regular contributor to Forbes magazine, for many of the statistics I use in this column.
    As we all know our economy is extremely sluggish to put it mildly.  It’s just growing at somewhere between 1 percent and 2 percent and at this rate the economy can only get worse.  In comparison,  our economy has grown, on average, at a rate of 3.3 percent since the end of World War II.  And even during this time frame we had two big recessions.

    May 9, 2012

  • Rest of week just gets busier here in Tarboro

    Just the other day, as the community was making final preparations for Relay for Life, we heard someone complaining about how there is “never anything to do around here.”
    We beg to differ.

    May 9, 2012

  • And we continue to walk ...

    As a cancer survivor — and on behalf of other cancer survivors — thank you to everyone who has taken even the most minute role in the Relay for Life effort.
    That effort continues this week when the Rocky Hock Opry rolls into town for a couple of Saturday performances at Edgecombe Community College.
    Please, continue your support.

    May 7, 2012

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